White Roses. Do one.

You’re disrespectful, how can you not see that? You come to our daughter’s place of rest and make it obvious that you have been but think you can keep your anonymity and it not disturb us?

Yes, I’m talking about you…. anonymous white rose leaver, you’re an absolute disgrace, you’re an absolute arsehole and that’s putting it mildly.

If you’ve followed me for a few years, you might know that maybe 18 months ago, I had a rant about someone leaving white roses at Millie’s Resting Place and it stopped. Whoever it was, stopped leaving them.

The same bunch of white roses always turned up on or around special dates to do with Millie and I’m going to be honest, it wound the shit out of us.

The last time I talked about this, I said that it’s like someone going into Millie’s bedroom without permission but making it obvious they’ve been and some then waste of space told me that she was public property because she was buried in a public cemetery.

It doesn’t work like that … far from it.

This is our daughter’s resting place and we’ve never publicly said where it is. We know that some people know where she is buried because people have seen us there but we have just chosen, never to publicly mention it through our own personal choice.

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Don’t get us wrong, we love people visiting – but all our friends and family know to drop us a little text or leave a note to say that they’ve been, it comforts us. It comforts us that people still visit and that they let us know. We have random members of the public that often see Millie’s place and they might leave a little something or they message us through our Facebook pages and let us know that they’ve been and we love this; it’s lovely to hear this.

What’s not to love, is this.

The same insensitive person has once again turned up and left the white roses and not just on any old day, the day that Asher turned 9 months old (this is how old Millie was when we lost her) – coincidence? We think not.

Whoever it is (we’ve got an idea) … you’re creepy. You are so creepy because you make it obvious that you’ve been. It’s like you want us to know that the same person is back again and you do this by leaving the same white roses every time, like it’s a message. You’re strange and you’re gutless. If you want to express your sympathy, express it to us, Millie’s parents – not by hiding behind the same choice of flowers but making it obvious. Grow some.

And the flowers, ripped up and in the bin, yet again! Every time you leave them, they get torn up and stomped on and until you own up and tell us who you are, this will continue to happen, so stop wasting your bloody money trying to wind us up, it doesn’t work, we get angry and then laugh at you for not having the guts to admit who you are.

Rant Over.

Oh wait, no it’s not … let’s hope I don’t see you there …

Regards.

One Angry Mother & Father

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8 thoughts on “White Roses. Do one.

  1. I’m sorry to learn about your daughter. I can’t pretend to know what your going through. All I can offer is my art. Not sales but my blog. I draw mazes in all my art. I’ve drawn 700 pieces since I started. I share one daily with a quote. I offer this because creating it saved my life in a challenging time. When I thought I wouldn’t make it or wanted to give up drawing mazes kept me moving for my boys first and then for myself. As i created all these art pieces with hundreds of dead ends but always a solution it inspired me to overcome the maze of my real life. I appreciate that you blog and have the courage to open up and share your healing with me. I’m grateful for having read your post!

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  2. Jo Weatherby

    No wonder you are angry, it’s a violation, that’s YOUR baby girl’s resting place! I wouldn’t dream of rocking up and leaving something without asking your permission first. That is a sacred place that holds your precious daughter, noone has a right to intrude like that. Xx

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  3. Mona Lawrence

    What a disgusting thing to do, obviously someone’s got a guilty mind ! Whoever it is will not beat you , you are a united family xx

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  4. Mona Lawrence

    What a disgusting thing to do, obviously someone’s got a guilty mind! Whoever it is will not beat you, you are a united family xx

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